“I Don’t Want Your Stuff — I Want You”
In 2 Corinthians 12:13–18, Paul says something deeply relational and profoundly counter-cultural:
“I do not seek yours, but you.”
In a world where people often use others — networking for advantage, complimenting to get favours, maintaining friendships only when beneficial — Paul flips the script. He says, I want your heart directed to Jesus, I’m not after your wallet. He gladly spends himself for others, even when the love isn’t reciprocated.
That is gospel love. Because that’s how Jesus loves.
Think about the rich young ruler (Mark 10). Jesus didn’t want his money; He wanted his heart. He wasn’t fundraising — He was heart-shaping.
Paul mirrors his Lord: he works with his own hands, refuses payment, travels kilometres by foot and boat just to serve — only to be misunderstood and accused. Yet, he keeps loving.
Have you ever poured into someone who didn’t appreciate it? A child? A friend? Someone in church? Paul’s words comfort us — Christ-like love isn’t transactional. It doesn’t demand applause. It gives and gives, because Christ gives and gives.
Ask today:
Do I value people more than what they can do for me?
Do I serve to be seen — or because I love?
Whom can I bless this week expecting nothing in return?
Practical challenge:
Send a message to someone who has quietly blessed you — someone without platform, hype, or spotlight — and thank them. Honour unseen faithfulness.
Prayer:
Jesus, give me Your heart for people. Make me someone who loves without keeping score and serves without demanding return. Amen.